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Proverbs 11:25 A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.

-Lynne

“Come on, you can do it!” he coaxed from his catch point, 800 feet below the board, or so it seemed. Peering down I made a decision that day as firm as any Baptist convert coming forward on a Sunday night…I wasn’t going to jump. Then he did something outlandishly stupid, he got out of the pool and joined me on the board. “Let’s jump together,” he suggested. Yeah right. The minute he touched my shoulders I executed a defensive move so severe, it’s been banned from legitimate self-define classes across the world. Basically I became a human octopus. Once he pried my arms from his neck, I locked my legs around his legs making it impossible for him to move without falling. Lifeguard boy was freaking out, after all it’s not everyday you have a 9-year-old suctioned to your body.

Moms, previously spying their precious tots in the floaters and sinkers class, were enthralled with the predicament this young boy had gotten himself into. I’m sure my mom was joining the others in their laugh-fest, making comments like, “I wonder who that child belongs to?” Eventually, my instructor realized there was only one way out. Yep, he jumped. And unlike the captain who goes down with the ship I bailed from my human buoy and swam to the top.

Now in case you think this silly episode in the life of Lynne is for not, I’ll have you know that I’ve gleaned two very valuable lessons from this ‘precious memory’.

One, I’ve only met one other in my life who was brave enough to come and join me in my place of fear and allow me to cleave tight.
Two, when you want to rescue a person who is needy, that person will suffocate you if you don’t help him or her jump into a love that is deeper than the ocean itself.
In case you’re wondering, the answer for both lessons is God.

Have a great day.

Sometimes I fret (a fancy way to say worry but the Bible says I shouldn’t do that) when I look at where my children are, and where I think they should be. Although my kids are on task most of the time, sometimes they make bad decisions, or don’t make the ones I think they should make. Other times they question everything I’ve so diligently taught them over the years. Not too long ago I cried out to the Lord and asked him where I went wrong? Did I miss a step? God assured me I had, it was the one where I forget to step back and let Him work.

If I’m truly honest about my own faith walk, I have to confess that my greatest commitment came about during the toughest times in my life, time spent with me and God wrestling it out Jacob style. My faith is authentic, not inherited from someone else–there’s no God chromosome. Not worn like a well-intended hand-me-down-God’s not in the second hand store business. God and me keep it real.

That’s truly what I want for my children as well, an honest faith that will carry them through this lifetime and onto the next. I’m making it my goal to pray and ask God when to jump in and when to step back and watch the Master at work. My children are on a journey to the cross and journeys usually take more than a day, sometimes years. After all I’ve been on one for quite some time now.

Blessings, Lynne

Are you ready?

Matthew’s Call
by Lynne Thompson

I heard my mommy calling me one springtime afternoon
But then I heard another call, some say I answered far too soon.
My Jesus was calling me, His voice so soft and sweet
It was the Jesus Mommy sings about, that I had a chance to meet.

It was just as Mommy told me, Jesus loves me, it is true
He took me in His loving arms and created me brand new.
Now I can smell how spring was meant to be, winter, summer, and fall
But, the sweet aroma of a prayer is the nicest scent of all.

From the tree of life I eat choice fruits, though I never hunger here
In fact, Dad would be glad to know I never shed a tear.
The colors here are not on earth; you need new eyes to see
When you get yours you’ll understand the way things ought to be.

I can hear all Mommy’s lullabies, for God keeps them in a jar
And I open it so often, that I know she’s not too far.
Yes, I heard my mommy calling, but I could not answer back
You see I’m with my Lord, and there’s nothing here I lack.

I promise to be here Mom and Dad when my Jesus calls to you
And then you’ll understand why my staying, was the best thing
I could do.

Like most kindergarten boys, there’s a bit of elfish mischief in David, that revels in making seven­year­old sister, Cassie, jump, scream, and run frantically from whatever torture tool he flashes; albeit snail or water balloon. But for the most part, my two children are inseparable. Bunk beds become secret forts, pinkie promises are sacred, and treats are to be divided 50­50. Even with so much friendship between them, I was not prepared for the small act of sacrificial love expressed one Christmas.

It was a windy day in December when David and I packed up his photo frames that he so carefully painted for the all­school Christmas boutique. With me at his side acting as cashier, he was quite the little mer­chant, enticing the children to buy his wares; after all you get a free piece of candy with every purchase. It did­n’t take long, however, for him to realize that while he sat working, the rest of the children floated along this makeshift mall purchasing “stuff.”

“Mom, when do I get to shop?” he asked.

I shoved a dollar into his hand and told him that I’d mind the store while he looked around for a while. Only two minutes later he came back with a sack holding his purchase, and I mentally prepared a future ser­mon about how it’s much easier to spend money than make it. I then opened his sack and to my amazement there was a beautiful 8­inch porcelain doll!

“David, where did you get this, I only gave you one dollar?”

“I know, she costs five dollars,” he explained, “but I told them I wanted to buy Cassie a doll. So they told me I could have it for one dollar.”

There are not words to express how proud I was of my son, who spent his only dollar on his sister, and got a bargain to boot. It was one of those “Mom Moments,” when you believe your child will indeed win the Nobel Peace Prize.

I only wish the story ended there, but it didn’t.

After selling our frames, we packed everything up and headed to the car. It was then I heard the crash.

“No!” I yelled running over to David as he lifted the doll out of the gutter, her feet lying shattered in pieces on the ground.

“Oh, David” I sobbed.

“I wanted to give Cassie a pretty doll for Christmas and now she’s broken!” he yelled.

All I could do was hold him as he wept into my shoulder.

I knew there was no fixing her, but Moms and surgeons have a lot in common, in that we both recon­struct what others believe beyond repair.

“David,” I said, “we could put some special booties on her feet, and no one will ever be able to tell the difference.”

“Really, Mom?”

When Christmas morning arrived I pulled Cassie aside and explained to her that David bought her a special gift, and that it was accidentally broken. I asked her to love it anyway.

At first, I felt a little funny about prepping her for the event. Shouldn’t I trust that my daughter would naturally do the right thing? No, I realized that human nature is too adept at finding the flaws. Unfortunately that truth applies to me. God has to continually tap me on the shoulder and say, “Be gentle with your fellow man, he has flaws, personality defects borne out of a shattered life, but his heart wants so badly to contribute something of value.”

Was Cassie grateful? Yes, and David beamed with joy. I ran to get the camera, in hopes of capturing this holiday moment. As I focused through the lens on my two children, I blinked in disbelief. Slowly moving the camera away from my eye I gazed upon the doll’s face. I had never noticed before, but her eyes were painted closed.

Blinded by love, overflowing with grace. Isn’t that what Christmas is all about?

Blessings,

Lynne

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Blessings,

Lynne

Blessings and an early Happy Holiday to all.

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I’ve made a list of “mom” influences in hopes that you moms out there will realize what a valuable role you play in the life of your children.

• Moms, for the most part, help a child learn language.
• Reading is fun, especially when you sit on mommy’s lap and turn the pages.
• Color coordination and modesty are essential. “You are not wearing that!”
• Confidence in self is important. “I know you can do it.”
• We show our children how to achieve goals in the midst of chaos
• That loving people is risky, but highly worth it.
• Proper humor
• Little things like phone calls, cards, and kind words make a person feel special
• Good hygiene is important.
• A sick person gets better faster when you rub his or her back and sing.
• A skinned knee will heal faster if you apply medicine, a bandage, and prayer
• Money is nice, but friends are of more value.
• Flowers and color brighten up a home.
• The house doesn’t matter, family matters.
• Cars can be fixed and accidents happen
• Giggling is great medicine.
• God has a plan, even when it doesn’t look like he does.
• Beauty fades, but faith endures.
• Mommy will always, always, always, love you.